In my best selling, Ex Factor System, I go through a ton of psychological tips and tricks that will make your ex wish that they’d never left you.
In fact, some of these tips to get your ex back are so powerful that it can only take just a matter of days before your ex comes crawling back to you.
One of my most popular psychological tactics is what I called “The Clean Slate E-mail.” In this email template, I teach exactly what you need to say your ex if you’ve already begged and pleaded to get him or her back.
If you’ve read some of my other articles or watched on YouTube, then you know that begging and pleading actually makes you less attractive to your ex.
And, if you beg and plead with your ex enough, you can effectively blow your chances of getting back together with your ex for good.
Now, since this was such a common issue with almost all of my clients, I designed an email that solves this problem and put your ex at what I like to call “Emotional Neutral.”
Basically after reading this email message, they’re not going to harbor any negative feelings for you. They’re basically just at an emotionally neutral state.
But can the same thing be accomplished by sending a short little text message?
Today I’m going to share three text messages to send your right after you begged and pleaded for him or her to get him or her back.
Before that, I want to quickly explain why begging and pleading is bad and why it makes your ex less attracted to you.
When human beings decide to mate with somebody they will usually try and mate with somebody of similar or higher social status.
The higher the social status, the more attractive he or she will be to the opposite sex. This is true for both men and women. For example, that’s why women are more attracted to the lead singer of a band than the bass player.
In order to get your ex to want you back, you need to showcase your social value without making it seem obvious.
Begging and pleading shows your ex how little social value you have. It will only reaffirm your ex’s decision to break up with you in the first place.
Like I’ve said in many other content, if you want your ex to come back, you need to do things that will demonstrate how you are a great catch.
There are a number of behaviors that you can engage in to convey that message. But if you’re reading this, you’ve probably been demonstrating some low-value behavior up until this point.
Don’t worry, all is not lost. You can begin reversing the process of making your ex attracted to you again and you can get your ex back even if you’ve begged and pleaded for weeks.
And it all starts with, drum roll, please… my clean slate text messages to send your ex.
These are simple but powerful text messages to send your ex right now to begin the process of making him or her or want you back again. I’m going to share three of text messages you can use right now to begin that exact process.
First, a quick warning.
This isn’t as simple as just sending one of these text messages and hoping for the best.
You really need to combine this tactic with the other strategies that I outlined in my EX Factor program if you want to optimize your chances of getting your ex back.
To learn more about those tactics and how to use them effectively, head over to my website right now and watch the free video presentation here.
1. The “Fresh Start” text.
Let’s jump into text number one, which is what I call the “Fresh start text.”
I’ll dive into an example, and break it down for you after.
For example, you could say something like,
“Hey, I have to apologize for acting so irrationally over the few days. I feel a lot better with myself right now and I’m off to a fresh start.”
Now, it’s important not to make excuses for your behavior, or you’re going to continue to look desperate. It’s important that you own up to the mistakes that you’ve made in the past, apologize to them and then move on.
This is highly attractive behavior and you’ll make your ex feel like you’re on the right path moving forward.
Now, I’ve talked about this before in a ton of other videos, but this text message must be followed by engaging in no contact for at least 30 days.
If you feel like you’ve done a lot of begging and pleading after the breakup, then more than 30 days might even be required. It’s important to note that you won’t be able to change your ex’s mind about the breakup overnight, right?
Building attraction takes days or weeks, so keep that in mind and don’t look for the quick fix result because it doesn’t exist.
2. The “Good Breakup” text.
The second text message is what call, “The good breakup” text.
It goes something like this:
“I have to apologize for my behavior over the last few days. I was super emotional and I wasn’t myself. I know that this break up is probably a good thing in the long run.”
If you’ve done a lot of begging and pleading after the breakup, this is one of the best text messages that you can send. It’s good because you’re apologizing and not making an excuse for your behavior.
And, unlike the first example that I mentioned a second ago, you go a step further and you say that the break up was actually a good idea.
Now, this is a more aggressive way of telling your ex that you’re ready to move on. And this is most definitely going to put your ex at ease and feel unthreatened by you.
At this point, you can start using some of the more advanced tactics and techniques that I’ve outlined in my EX Factor program. And you can learn more about those as I just mentioned here.
Again, like I just mentioned in the first text message to send your ex, you have to engage in no contact after sending the second one as well. That is absolutely crucial.
3. The “Overboard” text.
This final text message for getting you ex back is for people who really did go overboard with the begging and pleading. Maybe you’ve done something even worse by acting overly emotional and irrational.
If you’re afraid that you’ve blown your chances of getting ex back because of this, then it’s logical that you need to make an excuse to actually get your ex back.
Your ex isn’t going to want to date someone who’s that emotionally unstable.
In order to counter that, you say something along these lines:
“I’m sorry. I’ve been going through a lot of personal things I didn’t really tell you about. That’s why I’ve been acting this way. I know I have to stop and I’m working on myself. You won’t be hearing from me for a little while.”
In this case you’re coming up with a cryptic reason as to why you’ve been acting the way you have and you’re directly saying that you won’t be contacting your ex for the next little while.
If you have done a lot of very aggressive begging and pleading, this text message can go a very long way in making your ex return to emotionally neutral around you. In this example, you have to be strict with yourself and use the no contact rule in full.
Now, these text messages to send your ex are powerful and will get your foot in the door, but they aren’t the whole story to pushing the reset button on your relationship.
To learn more about how to get your exe’s attention and get another chance, head over to my website right now and watch the free video presentation here.
Don’t miss out on your chance to repair your relationship.