Has your man broken up with you citing your continual nagging or trust issues?
Or have you simply split from your man because of differences?
Regardless what has caused the breakup, if you really want to get the love of your life back, there are several things you can do change the situation.
Above all though, make sure you have a good reason to reconcile the relationship.
There is no reason to repair your relationship if neither one of you truly needs it in your life.
But once you have decided this is really what you want follow the steps below.
1. List the complaints your ex had about you
One of the best ways to start the process of getting your man back is to analyze what it was that pushed him away in the first place.
Did he tell you how much he hated it when you talked constantly about your girlfriends?
Did you talk down to him?
Figure out what his biggest complaints were and then work to make the change in your life.
If he sees you are willing to change he will be more likely to consider taking you back.
2. Get healthy
As tempting as it may seem to simply pull all the shades and lock the doors, you have to keep yourself healthy. Don’t neglect the little things.
Focus on your own self care– both because it’ll help you feel better and because
Instead of allowing your ex to see you wallowing in self pity, try keep your head up and don’t let them see you down.
As much as you might want to get emotional and put all your cards on the table, you have to keep yourself looking healthy. Exercise and rest will also help you tremendously, and make you feel better.
3. Be confident
Confidence is much more attractive than insecurity in any person. If you want to draw him back to you have to be yourself and exude confidence.
You don’t have to be egotistical or rude, just be happy and positive and don’t let him see you down.
Show your ex how happy you are and what he is missing.
4. Go on a date
As much as people don’t want to go on a date after a breakup, sometimes it’s the best idea.
Jealousy is powerful. When you start dating, you announce to the universe that you’re available.
If he doesn’t get you back someone else will have you.
You aren’t going to stick around and wait on him forever and you want him to know that.
It doesn’t matter what caused you to break up, if you truly want him back you have the power to do so.
Don’t rely on him to come crawling back, make yourself happy and your life the best you can possibly make it.
Sending you love.
