Absence makes the heart grow fonder, or so we’re told. But let’s face it. Absence only works if the guy is actually missing you during that time.
How can you make him miss you even when his hand isn’t in yours?
My name is Amy North. I’m a relationship coach and bestselling author of The Devotion System, from Vancouver, Canada. Today, I’m going to share nine powerful, proven tips for how to make your boyfriend miss you.
It doesn’t matter if you’re in a longstanding relationship that you’re trying to spice up, if you recently broke up and you’re trying to undo it, if you’ve had an argument with your man you’re trying to resolve it, or if you are trying to pin down your dream guy.
Making him miss you is the secret ingredient to your love potion. What I’m going to share with you today are some proven ways to make the guy you’re into miss you.
Now, without further ado, let’s get started.
1. Leave on a high note.
Nothing will lead you than you’re on your man’s mind like when you part ways on a high note. This is especially true if your relationship has been shaky lately.
When you and your man leave each other on unpleasant or overly serious terms, there’s a good chance that the time he spends away from you will be full of questions about whether or not he’s better off without you.
Instead of giving him this chance to question your relationship, make him miss you by leaving cheerfully with hugs and kisses, laughter and promises to see each other again soon.
2. Be mysterious.
When you’re trying to woo a guy, leaving a little mystery is one of the best ways to ensure that he’s still thinking of you once you’re out of sight.
Instead of pouring your heart out or letting him in on all your thoughts and secrets, choose to hold back in little ways and avoid the classic pitfall of oversharing.
If he asks you questions about your past, be quiet but not annoyingly so.
Answer his questions honestly but don’t dish out loads of information. A little ambiguity is the best way to make him want to spend more time with you.
3. Highlight the fun parts of your life.
This doesn’t mean that you spend all of your time with him proving that your life is a wonderland because if you do, he’ll smell your bluff.
Instead, just be positive. Tell him about the amazing concert you went to, the new sushi joint you tried, or the crazy night out you had with your girlfriends. Fun stories as opposed to moaning about negative issues proves that you’re a great person to be around whether or not he’s there.
This is a solid tactic to use after a breakup when you’re trying to show him how much duller his life is without you around. It can also show him how breaking up isn’t the end of your life.
4. Be good in bed.
Now, this one is a little bit smutty but trust me, if you know how to rock his world between the sheets, he’ll be missing you in no time.
If you’re in a long distance relationship, this can be especially true because your man is going to need something to get him through those long, lonely nights. Being a sex goddess makes him miss you and also want only you.
Why would he bother throwing away mind-blowing sex for a fling that’s less amazing?
If this sounds frightening, relax. The very fact that you know what your guy likes and dislikes gives you a leg up on the possible competition.
5. Show subtle interest in someone else.
Did you know that in France a crime of passion can get you off the hook for murder? That doesn’t apply in other places but jealousy is a useful tool for making a guy think about you.
How do you use jealousy to your advantage?
Jealousy is best used when you’re trying to get the attention of an ex-boyfriend or a guy who hasn’t yet committed to you, which is why it’s an amazing technique to make a man want or miss you.
To do so, shift your attention from your real love interest to someone else. When you’re around that person, make sure you’re dress well, laugh often, flirt lots, and use gentle touches on hands and arms. In this case, you want to display your so-called interest for this person for all to see.
When a man you are wanting sees this, it maybe the push he needs to work on wanting you back. A word to the wise though, don’t overdo it.
6. Leave him wanting more.
The best way to make him miss you– whether he just met you or you’ve been together for years– is to leave him wanting more.
More kisses, more stories, more laughter, more creativity, more of your mother’s amazing secret meatball recipe, more dirty talk, whatever it is. Just leave him wanting more.
By letting him know that he can look forward to the same treatment the next time he sees you, he’ll be eager to see you again and will miss you in between.
7. Stop contacting him first.
If you’re constantly calling and texting the man you’re into, then he does not have any time to think about missing you.
Take a break from the daily phone call time and wait for him to call or text you. When you stop calling or texting, he will wonder why and this will cause him to start thinking about you and missing you.
If you’re someone who is constantly updating social media, then try limiting how much you post so that he really feels the brunt of no contact.
Social media posts are an easy way for people to stay connected. It does not give him the chance to miss you. When you post less, your guy will start to miss learning about what’s going on in your life.
8. Look your best.
Still wondering how to make him miss you? Here’s an easy one. Look good. Not to sound shallow, but if you and your guy just broke up and there’s still a chance you might get back together, then looking fantastic is one of the best ways to do it.
Work out, wear flattering clothing, show off your sexy assets, do your hair and make-up and anything else that makes you feel good.
Enhancing your natural beauty not only makes you more physically attractive, it also gives you an appealing confidence that will make him miss you even more.
9. Be your own woman.
One of the best ways to make him miss you is to stop depending on him for your happiness. By showing him that you’re happily pursuing your own personal commitments, hobbies, interests, and friendships, you’ll be on his mind more than you can imagine. Be your own woman.
Well, that’s all for today. I hope you can take some of these ideas and put them to action so that your guy starts missing you. If you have any questions about how or when to use these tips then feel free to post in the comments below.
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