Today we’ll be looking at what to do if your ex is stubborn.
This is something that I encounter a lot when I get messages, emails, and questions from people.
They tell me that their ex is being stubborn in one way or another. This stubbornness can take all sorts of different forms.
For example, your ex might be stubborn if they don’t want to get back together with you. Your ex might be stubborn if they are just closed off to talking to you. They might be stubborn if they don’t want to meet up with you.
Your ex might be stubborn if they just want to be friends with you. You might think that your ex is stubborn if they don’t want to have long, deep, emotional, text conversations with you but they’re okay with surface-level sorts of things.
When it comes to the topic of your ex being stubborn, it is important to realize that what’s going on when people tell me that their ex is being stubborn is that they are along the spectrum of the five stages of getting back together, right?
Your ex goes through an emotional journey of their own in the process of getting back together with you. They might be completely closed and walled off from you.
In which case, your ex might be experiencing a high level of resistance towards interacting with you. Resistance can cause them to not respond to you at all or it can cause them to give you short, one-word responses to your messages. Maybe they give you hot and cold behavior, right?
Oftentimes, your exe’s initial resistance can be mistaken as stubbornness.
As you guide your ex along the journey of getting back together with you, what’s going to happen is your exe’s stubbornness will start to fall away.
That’s why it’s really important to pay attention to which of the five stages your ex is at when it comes to their journey towards getting back together.
If you approach them in the wrong way, you will become frustrated and you’ll end up thinking that your ex is stubborn when you need to meet them where they’re at emotionally and help guide them along this journey towards getting back together with you.
If you are uncertain about where your ex might be in the stages of getting back together, just know that if you are really frustrated with where your ex is at, their behavior, their lack of openness, and lack of commitment to interacting with you, then it’s probably because you need to calibrate with where they are in the five stages of getting back together.
And that is something that I teach inside of my courses, specifically the Ex Solutions Program course.
I will teach you how to dial in on where your ex is at and then meet them where they’re at emotionally so that you can help to guide them along that journey of their five stages of getting back together.
This is so when you get to the fifth and final stage which we call “New Beginnings,” your ex is emotionally ready to be in a new relationship with you again.
Then the two of you just have the formality of you know, checking in with each other and saying, “Hey, it seems like we’re having a great connection, would you be interested in being in a relationship again?”
Or something along those lines, when you can hash out any kinds of last-minute hesitation or concerns that either of you might have.
If that’s something that you’re interested in, click on this link and fill out the quick quiz that lets me know where you’re at in the process of reconnecting with your ex.
Then I’ll send your free report, 5 Unconscious Signs Your Ex Still Wants You (Hint: C.A.P.E.T.) and customized tips, strategies and advice to will help you connect with your love again.
Don’t miss out on your opportunity to have them back in your life.