I’m Kate Spring— dating and relationship coach for men from Victoria BC.
I’m here to share a few tips to help you become the bad boy that women want without going through an identity crisis.
We’ve all seen those movies and TV shows about the misunderstood misfit who drives women crazy.
I’m talking about the Han Solos, Ryan Atwoods, and the James Deans– the infamous bad boy persona that has captivated women for centuries.
I’m here to help you accomplish how to be a bad boy, but without turning you into a total dick because that’s just a poor foundation for any relationship.
1. Be confident.
The number one thing that you can do to become the bad boy that women swoon over, is to be confident.
Confidence is tricky because some people have it, some people don’t, and some people fake it super well.
If confidence isn’t one of your strong suits, then I suggest you spend some time cultivating some. Or at least pretend you do.
Part of being confident is being calm. By allowing the situation to just be.
Limiting your expectations is a good place to start. We never want to seem like we are defeated.
Another part of being confident is being resilient.
When we are resilient we realize that we actually control the situation and our reaction to it.
Say for example that you have just met a woman that you know you like, and you spill your drink on her or near her or on yourself.
Whatever the situation is, don’t freak out.
Instead of losing your composure, grab a cloth, offer to wipe it up, or let her do it herself.
Regardless, apologize once and then move on. Be resilient.
You could also make a witty joke if it was something you spilled on yourself.
Going with the flow is a very attractive quality of the bad boy, and once you employ this attitude into your life, you will be better off for it!
Being resilient is also important in rejection.
Rejection happens, but the fear of rejection is worse than rejection itself. So let that shit slide off of your back.
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2. Care the least.
After we’ve mustered up some confidence, the next thing to understand about the bad boy is how they play the game of who cares less.
I’m not telling you not to care–no– but the bad boy has this way of always caring the least, which makes women chase him.
I’m not preaching for you to be indifferent, please do care about people and the woman you are pursuing, but it is just how you show it.
This just means that you care about yourself a little more than you care about what other people think about you.
You might be wondering why bad boys are successful in the art of seduction?
That is because they have a mentality of take it or leave it.
This is a good act of self-preservation, but it is really no way to live your life.
Some bad boys just have commitment issues so they remain detached from people. Women do this too.
So part of being the bad boy is also finding the girl who isn’t afraid of commitment.
3. Think of yourself as number one.
You should be number one, especially if you’re single and seeking.
You can be respectful and somewhat detached.
You don’t want to waste anyone’s time and you especially don’t want your time wasted, so when we make our intentions clear they are hopefully reciprocated or we can just move on.
As much as courting and relationships seem like games, it really isn’t. And you would be well advised to curb the games early on, or just move on.
4. Make yourself an even blend of naughty and nice.
My final piece of advice on becoming the bad boy that women want is to have an even blend of being naughty and nice.
You want to avoid at all costs being a douche canoe.
That won’t get you far, and might just get you a swift slap across the face.
But you also don’t want to be too nice. You still want her to chase you from time to time.
Relationships aren’t one sided and neither should pursuing women.
To be a bad boy women want you have to toe a fine line between being a good guy at heart and exuding SOME bad boy behavior.
That bad boy behavior is being independent, confident and resilient.
With these simple steps you will not only be a bad boy that women fawn over, but you will also become the best, most confident version of yourself.
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