Today’s topic is all about how to go about attracting love in the easiest and quickest way possible.
This also is how to make a really good first impression and how to be alluring and attractive to a guy.
There are a number of things that you can do to attract men. And there’s a lot of stuff that I talk about and a lot of other tips. But there is one thing that is easy for you to do that you can stop doing right now that will make you actually attractive to everybody.
So, there’s a lot of research lately all over the world about what makes us happy and what makes us more attractive.
One of the most powerful things that increases our happiness, helps our body to feel healthier and actually improves our wellbeing on all levels is… gratitude.
We’ve all heard about gratitude journals and that to be grateful is important, but how many people actually consciously are grateful for the things in their life?
How many people focus more on the things that they don’t want in their life versus the things they DO want?
How many people focus on all the things they’re unhappy about which aren’t working out versus the things that ARE working out?
And… what does this have to do about attracting men?
Healthy people are attracted to healthy energy.
And, one of the easiest ways to feel healthy, happier, more content, to feel good in your body, like yourself, and like your life is to be grateful.
So when you’re on a date with a guy, if your thoughts might be like:
“I’m so tired of dating, dating is hard.”
“All guys are cheaters.”
“No one even ends up liking me.”
Or any of the other various kinds of negative things that can go through your mind, you’re not going to be as attractive.
Or maybe you’re tearing yourself or your date down, thinking:
“I’ve got five extra pounds on me, no one’s going to find me attractive.”
“He doesn’t dress as well as I’d like.”
“He doesn’t do this, he doesn’t do that.”
“He speaks too much, he doesn’t speak enough.”
Whatever it is, we can tend to really focus on the stuff that we don’t like and don’t want, NOT the things we’re grateful for.
It doesn’t mean that the guy sitting in front of you is automatically the guy for you.
Though when we’re in a gratitude mindset, it’s easier to make the connections you are already having, better.
Of course, dating isn’t the most exciting, easiest or funnest thing. It’s not always easy to go out and meet different guy after different guy trying to find someone who’s right for you.
But if your mindset is permanently stuck in, “Life’s tough Land,” where you believe everything’s hard, and think to yourself, “no guy will ever be right for me” or “no guy will ever find me attractive,” whatever your negative story is, then you’re not going to be appealing to the person sitting in front of you.
You’re actually not going to be that appealing to anybody, to be honest.
When you exude that, “life is tough,” hard, painful energy, then that rubs off on other people and people un-attracted to that.
People are becoming more and more aware of energy in their environment, and people want to be around people who give them energy and lift them up, or certainly people who don’t bring them down.
If you want to make a really amazing impression, be grateful to be able to go to a coffee shop and afford a cup of tea. Be grateful that this man is sitting in front of you wanting to meet you.
It doesn’t matter what happens, whether he’s your man forever, he is there making time in his day to see you.
Also, be grateful for your body. It doesn’t have to be the perfect ideal of what you think is the perfect body. In fact, there’s no such thing. Be grateful that you have one. Be grateful for your arms, your voice, your mouth, your lips, your tongue, be grateful for your life, for the air, for the birds. Be grateful for trees, be grateful for everything.
We don’t have to focus on the stuff that makes us feel ugh!
Focus on the stuff that makes us feel good because what we focus on we get more off.
When you date from a place of openness, gratitude, a wonder, then you actually become more inviting.
So, if you wouldn’t automatically make a great first impression, then be in a place of gratitude because you’ll come across as more grounded, open, warm, confident, attractive— not just emotionally— but energetically and physically because when you are in gratitude mode, your facial expressions are warm, energetic and uplifting which is inviting.
Every day I encourage you to focus on what you’re grateful for, whether it’s multiple times a day, every morning, every night and/or every time you eat.
Scientifically, living in a place of gratitude is scientifically is the number one thing. So be grateful for the date, be grateful to meet people, and you will exude joy which is exactly what a potential mate wants to see.
To learn more about how to attract a man, make him putty in your hands and ensure he only has eyes for you, don’t miss out on the #1 secret to get the love you WANT from a man.