How to Get A Guy to Approach YOU (Make Him Want To Ask You Out)


How many times have you crossed paths with a man, made eye contact and wanted more than anything for him to walk over?

Chances are it has happened probably more than once. So then, wondering how to get a guy to approach YOU and ask you out?

My name is Amy North and I’m a relationship coach from the West coast of Canada.

Today, I want to share a little known trick that is perfect for those times when you want a man to approach you.

Let’s say you and your girlfriends are out for drinks one night and you catch eyes with a man there. You think he’s cute and you keep finding yourself looking in his direction. When you do, he’s looking back and before you know it, you’re fully invested in a game of glancing at one another. You’re feeling smitten, and want more than anything for him to come over and ask for your number.

How do you go from glancing to getting his contact info? How do you make him want to ask you out?

1. Wave him over.

That’s right, wave him over. By giving him a physical invite to approach you, he’ll not only feel more confident doing so because he won’t have to worry about being rejected, but it also means less work for you too!

That being said, this could go a couple different ways. For instance, if you’re with your friends then he may still feel uncomfortable approaching you because he’s worried about what they might say or do.

In that case, wave him over again and this time, be sure to smile and make it clear that he’s welcome to join you. You don’t want him to think that you’re shooting him awkward or strange looks. It could easily send the wrong message.

Maybe you’ve tried this before, or perhaps more likely you’ve had it done to you. Who’s to say that a man has to be the one to initiate contact like this? Women can do it too and in a very powerful way.

2. Create an opportunity for him to approach you.

If you’re not comfortable inviting him over, then create an opportunity for him to approach you.

By subtly removing yourself from your friend group, be it taking a bathroom trip, or answering a call outside, it’ll give him the opportunity to come chat one-on-one with you. If he’s interested, then he will be watching for his chance to make a move. Be sure to smile at him in a flirty way as you walk from your friends, it’ll give him that final assurance he needs to follow your lead.

How To Get Him To Ask You Out

What do you do once he does approach you? I mean, you’ve called him over, so you must have something to say, right?

When he does come over simply smile and say, “I just wanted to say hi.”

Not only is this friendly and sweet, but it also leaves the ball on his court to carry on a conversation. Now the pressure is off you.

From here, you’ll want to flirt and keep the conversation light and breezy.

Remember, the trick is to intrigue him enough to make him ask you out.

To learn more about the kinds of things you can say and do to make any man want to flirt, ask you out and date you, visit my website and watch the free video presentation.

Well, that’s all the time I have for today. Until next time, take care and good luck!

Amy North

About Amy North

Amy North is the dating coach and author behind the bestselling programs, The Devotion System which explains how to find and keep the man of your dreams and Text Chemistry which helps women magnetize men using simple, easy text messages.

Coach Amy North specializes in breakups, marital issues, and dating for women, and offers relationship coaching to clients from around the world.

Her background in both psychology and journalism makes Amy a highly sought-after relationship expert. With thousands of subscribers and millions of views, her popular YouTube channel has become a smash hit with women all over the world.

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