Today I’m going to tell you the chances of getting your ex back. Your chances of getting back together are not a clear-cut thing.
It’s not just a matter of putting a series of factors into my Love-A-Tron 3000 computer that I happen to have in my closet which tells you the odds of getting back together with your ex are 72.8%.
It’s not like that, right? You have to keep in mind that your odds of getting back together with your ex are directly proportionate to your level of investment in the process, right?
It’s like how the odds of having a gym membership work for you depend on how committed you are to going to the gym.
If you’re half-hearted about going to the gym and you think, “if there’s nothing good on TV and there’s not a pizza that magically appears in front of me, then sure, maybe I’ll go to the gym.”
Chances are, if you treat going to the gym this way then you’re probably not going to get in shape very fast.
Instead if you decide, “That’s it. I’m going to the gym every day. I don’t care if the best show in the whole world is on. I don’t care if there’s McDonald’s, junk food and pizza here. I am going to the gym and I am going to get my killer bod.”
You are much, much more likely to succeed in actually having the gym work for you, right?
This is the same way that your level of investment in the process of getting back together with your ex very highly determines the chances that you get.
You determine your chances of getting your ex back.
YOU are the biggest factor in whether or not you can get your ex back.
If you’re half-hearted about it, you’ll have very low chances of getting back together your ex.
If you are very committed, if you’re willing to do whatever it takes, you’re willing to push through the hard times, obstacles, challenges, sticking points, and road blocks, then you absolutely can get back together with your ex.
You can absolutely pull through when things get tough. You will have what it takes to get back together with your ex.
However, if you are not that committed, your chances of getting your ex back are going to be much less.
I hope this helps you understand that you are actually the primary driver in getting back together with your ex.
It doesn’t matter if your ex is in a rebound relationship.
If you are not committed, it’s not going to happen.
If you ARE completely committed to getting them back, it is much more likely to happen.
It doesn’t matter if your ex lives far away.
If you are not committed, because it’s probably not going to happen.
If you ARE committed, it’s much more likely to happen.
It doesn’t matter if your ex says that they hate your guts, because if you are not committed, if you’re just half-hearted about it, then you’re probably not going to be able to make things work.
Sorry, that’s just the truth.
If you are committed to making things work then you are much more likely to get through your ex and work through all of their emotions together and be able to come back together again.
These are just a couple of examples, but I think you get the point.
If you are committed to really getting through your ex, having high-quality emotional interactions, connecting on an emotional level, having a satisfying relationship and getting a fresh start, then your chances of getting back together are much more likely than if you’re half-hearted about it and think, “we’ll see, whatever.”
Don’t cut yourself slack when it comes to this.
Don’t think it is just all about external stuff.
Your chances of getting your ex back really depend on if you are willing to do what it takes to have a positive connection with your ex because having a positive connection is the most important thing when it comes to them wanting to get back together with you.
If the interactions between the two of you feel good, then they will cut you so much slack.
Your ex will move mountains to get back together with you if interacting with you consistently feels really good.
If there’s a strong emotional connection, they will put up with so much if being around you feels so good.
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