Today I’m going to discuss 3 KEY ways to make her want you.
These are the three best kept secrets in attraction. Use these very underrated ways to make a woman not only want you, but get obsessed with you.
The kind of obsessed where she’s the one texting you late at night saying, “come over ;)”
So here goes:
1. Befriend her.
The first way to get under a woman’s skin, in a good way, is to befriend her.
Having the goal of just befriending her at the beginning relieves the pressure from you to immediately become the object of her sexual desire. It’s breaking this down into more simple steps.
How you go about befriending a girl is to make a connection that isn’t sexual in nature off the bat with the goal that, later on, she will become quite fixated on you and only you.
You do this by remembering the important details of her life, making her laugh, and connecting on your interests and have a good time together.
How you get to know someone is by asking questions.
The obvious what-do-you-do-for-work-question isn’t a bad jumping off point. Or what-do-you-take-in-school-question because the follow up is where you shine.
You simply ask, “what made you get into that field?” or different variations of that. Such as, “what’s the best/most rewarding part of your job?” etc.
These are thoughtful questions that allow a girl to open up to you, ultimately helping you get to know her better.
The big but here, so that you don’t get friend zoned, is that you befriend her without being too available. Being too available is where men get friendzoned… hard!
You don’t want to be at her beck and call.
The thing about going in with the goal of friendship is that it lets her guard down, allows her to be more herself, but then when you start to implement the next steps to make her want you, she will start to develop more than just platonic feelings for you.
You will subconsciously create a desire in her to want to be with you sexually.
Another key way that you don’t put yourself in the friend zone is to make sure that you put yourself first, which is our next point.
2. Put yourself first.
Putting yourself first means that you don’t put all of your eggs into one basket.
You want to make yourself the object of her desire, but that comes with being a man that isn’t readily available to a woman all the time.
Like when you’re in the friend zone, you don’t want to be the guy that she can call to dish about other guys, which means you need to actively be playing the field.
Subtly let her know that you’re around other women.
Tell funny stories about women coming on to you. Or tell stories about you spending time with other women, even if they are your actual friends.
A lot of men make the mistake of giving a woman all of his time and attention too early on, which doesn’t prompt her to do any of the chasing and puts her in control of the relationship, which is not what you want.
Putting yourself first means that your career and or school is your top priority.
Men that have priorities and stick to them are very desirable to be with. It also poses a challenge to a woman to try to be your one exception.
The next thing that shouldn’t fall to the wayside are your personal hobbies, passions and friendships, after that, your time and attention can be on dating women.
Doing this sends a subliminal signal that your life is important and that you are a man of value.
This is the number one way to communicate confidence. So look out for number one!
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Our third and final way to make any woman want you is to touch her at the right time.
3. Touch to create tension.
It’s no secret that creating sexual tension is one of the number one ways to make a woman want you.
Sex would be nothing without tension. And how you do this is through touch, but touching at the right time.
There is a method to this madness and you want to associate feelings of pleasure with your touch. And how you do that in a non-overtly sexual way is to touch her when she’s smiling or laughing.
Touching at a high point of your face to face interaction directly links her having a good time to you touching her.
This type of mutual touching increases a person’s heart rate and is actually good for your health.
Some ways to touch and flirt with a woman are as follows:
- Tickling is a playful and harmless form of touching with a sexual undertone, which means it’s great and you should do it.
- Playful wrestling.
- Putting your arm around her when you’re walking.
- Hugging when you say hello and goodbye.
All of these subconsciously create the tension that you want. And those are 3 ways to make any woman want you!
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