Hey, Kate Spring here. Lately, I’ve been getting a lot of messages about how to kiss a woman.
I’ve thought about this for quite some time.
My first thought was, “OMG! You can practice on your hand,” or if that’s not your style, then a teddy bear like I did when I was figuring out how to kiss.
But then I thought kissing inanimate objects is probably not the best course of action.
Here’s my advice on how to kiss a woman and be unforgettable.
1. Be calm.
The first thing I recommend you do when you are about to kiss a girl is to be calm! Chill out!
Or at least try and calm yourself down before kissing her.
Sometimes, if you are a little nervous, it can be endearing to a girl.
And, other times, if you are just sweating profusely and shaking, it can kind of be a turn off.
Try and give yourself a confidence boost before you head into a situation.
Try a personal pep talk where you let yourself know that you are a stellar dude who’s going to kiss the crap out of a girl and make it beyond memorable.
The worst thing that is going to happen is that you flop, and the kiss sucks, but that just means you try again. So have some confidence and just go for it.
2. Have good breath.
The second thing that is important about having a memorable kiss is having good breath.
This is the prep work before you play tonsil hockey. This is pretty easy to accomplish, just keep some breath mints and/or gum on hand.
Along with the prep work before a good kiss, it wouldn’t hurt to invest in a Chapstick.
If you don’t want to go out with glossy lips, no problem, apply it at night before you go to bed.
Having soft lips will also set you apart from the crowd and help to make your kiss memorable.
3. Wetter is NOT better.
The third piece of advice when leaning in for the kiss is that wetter isn’t necessarily better in this case.
Try to contain the moisture levels coming out of your mouth; you don’t want to drown your crush.
Remember, again, that EVERYONE is different. And that means that they will kiss differently.
So don’t get discouraged if it takes you a second to find your rhythm after kissing her.
To learn more about finding your rhythm in attracting women and figuring out the right body language to do so, watch the free presentation here.
4. Start slow.
To start kissing her, begin with some soft slow kisses, and you can build the intensity from there.
Instead of going in full force with some tongue right away, put the her lower lip in between yours and linger a little bit.
5. Add body contact.
Now that you are actually kissing her, you should probably add some body contact.
You can do several things like rest your hand on her cheek or where her hairline meets her neck or the small of her back.
Whatever comes naturally to you and feels appropriate for the situation.
I can’t give you a prescriptive step-by-step, “follow these rules exactly to get the perfect memorable kiss,” but by using these tips, and doing it in your own way, will be unique.
6. Mix it up.
And, finally, mix it up a bit. Don’t keep your head in the same place or your hands or your mouth for that matter! And have fun! Kissing is fun!
Alright, so go out there and give a girl your best, freshest breathed kiss!
To learn the “secret language” that will make any woman feel an uncontrollable lust for you, watch the free presentation here.
