Just imagine:
You are in bed together…
Passionately in the moment…
Feeling so intimately connected…
And then…
He closes his eyes during sex in order to get to the “finish line.”
So… What does it mean when he closes his eyes during sex?
If you are like a lot of women, you might wonder if he closes his eyes during sex because he’s retreating into some vivid fantasy world.
Without you. Sad face.
It’s easy to wonder, is he thinking about another woman while he’s in bed with you?
Does closing his eyes during sex mean he wishes he’s having sex with someone else?
Is he trying to escape from you– the amazing woman who is right there in front of him– and mentally have sex with someone else?
No. If you’re worried that when a man closes his eyes during sex, it’s about ANY of these things, you’re wrong.
I’m happy to tell you that a man closing his eyes during sex has nothing to do with escaping from the moment with you and everything to do with actually enjoying the intense sensations happening.
In fact, most guys put a certain amount of mental effort toward holding BACK on climaxing during sex.
They want to last longer, to please you more, and not race to the finish.
Most men WANT you to be happy and pleased in the bedroom and they’re thrilled to be there with you.
And, this means they have to both focus on giving you pleasure AND keeping themselves going the whole time without climaxing and stopping the action.
So when they actually do shift gears into allowing their orgasm to happen, the physical sensations are powerful.
Closing his eyes during sex allows him to fully tune in to what is happening pleasure-wise in his body.
It was explained to me in this way:
When you take away one of the five senses, it makes the other senses and sensations stronger and more vivid.
When I surveyed my panel of men when writing my best-selling program The Language of Desire (and The Sensual Tsunami) about what male orgasm feels like, they set me straight.
One man told me:
“It’s like a slow-building roller coaster that takes a very sharp incline almost straight up before you rocket straight back down.
And you get this amazing feeling in your stomach right before you climax and then for the next 10-15 seconds the floor drops out and you are drifting in bliss.
Then you come back to reality.”
With that kind of intensity, he isn’t even keeping track of what his eyes are doing when he’s in bed with you!
You can also think about it like kissing.
We close our eyes when we kiss not because we want to disconnect from the moment but because it actually draws our awareness closer to what is taking place physically.
Except when it comes to orgasm, it’s about a million times more physical fireworks.
Is he thinking about another woman when he closes his eyes during sex?
Sure, it’s possible he’s mentally fantasizing about making love to a Victoria’s Secret model while he’s in bed with you.
Just like sometimes you might close your eyes and think about Brad Pitt or Denzel Washington…or whoever floats the little man in your boat.
Fantasizing in that manner isn’t a bad thing.
It’s totally normal and most people (both men and women) close their eyes and fantasize in bed, on occasion.
And fantasy doesn’t damage your relationship when it’s something that happens once in awhile, especially when it includes a celebrity or someone you aren’t ever actually going to even meet… let alone get naked with.
Still worried?
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Look you right in the eye…
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