4 Reasons Why Men Love Dirty Talk

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It should come as no surprise that guys dig dirty talk.

But have you ever considered the reasons why this form of sexual play is just so dang arousing to him?

Let’s take a dive into why dirty talk drives him wild.

1. Dirty talk is an arousing surprise.

If you have a ladylike public persona but behind closed doors you let explicit phrases tumble from your mouth, the contradiction gives him a sexy charge of excitement.

Even if you aren’t the pinnacle of propriety, seeing you transform into a naughty vixen gives him a titillating thrill. This heightens his senses and makes everything that much more arousing for him.

2. He is guaranteed to feel like a sex-god.

When you let loose with a string of moans and screams mixed with a variety of sexy play-by-plays and dirty directives, you show him just how much you LOVE what he’s doing to you.

Your unbridled enthusiasm tells him in no uncertain terms that he’s rocking your socks.

3. Your confidence attracts him.

A woman who has the self-confidence to use dirty phrases to get what she wants in bed is downright seductive. Men are drawn to women who aren’t afraid to express themselves sexually.

Generally, talking dirty to him clues him in that you are far from uptight or inhibited. A good time is in store for you both!

4. It shows you are totally in the moment.

Enthusiasm is such a huge turn-on for men. A quiet partner can be misunderstood as a bored or distracted partner, and that can put a big damper on the sexy mood.

When you talk dirty, not only are YOU 100% present and in the moment, it shows him that you are. That level of engagement with what’s happening between you serves to validate that he’s pleasing you.

All of the reasons above activate different chemicals in his brain and are hitting some of the big triggers for his sex drive.

Who knew that there was some science behind talking dirty? Of course, not every woman feels comfortable launching into dirty talk, and if that sounds like you, you are not alone. But don’t let your fears stop you from incorporating this fun technique into your sex life.

Do you know what to say when he puts you on the spot and asks you to talk dirty to him?

When you watch this you’ll learn how to get a man more turned on and desperate for *you*…

While fully clothed…

Acting totally innocent…

Than any other woman could while totally naked…

In this video, I teach you the secret to being INCREDIBLY sexy and alluring to a man without ever acting or feeling “slutty”…

If you’re nervous or feel self conscious talking dirty. . . or if you feel kind of dumb because you just don’t know what to say to him in the bedroom, you really need to go watch this  right now…

Felicity Keith

About Felicity Keith

Felicity is the author of the bestselling, smash hit program, The Language of Desire.

Candid and sincere, Felicity Keith dishes advice about sex, dating, and relationships with humor and healthy how-to’s. Her work has influenced thousands of women and she is a regular contributor at Digital Romance, Inc.

Dubbed a “suburban Carrie Bradshaw”, she spent years in the dating trenches making every mistake possible… until she finally wised up. In the process, her observations about the inner workings of the male mind resulted in a love-life 180. Now she teaches women how to unleash their inner vixen on their terms and enjoy the love they deserve.

One Comment

  1. Kevin

    June 6, 2015 at 3:28 pm

    Both genders are pilloried for having a sex drive , but women are bashed slightly more , all this ” Slut Shaming ” is bullshit , the result is frigid , asexual women because of this repression. Men are nowadays described as ” Rapey “, perverts etc just for having a man sized libido. I’m soooo glad mine has declined with both age & stress , good riddance !!

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