When a guy you’re interested in starts ignoring you, it can feel like the end of the world. You start questioning why and may even trace back through your every move wondering, “why is he ignoring me?”
Unfortunately for us women, it is not an easy task to pinpoint the reasons why a man ignores you. What if I told you that you could prevent this from happening by knowing what he is thinking when he ignores you?
Well, that is exactly what I’m about to share here today. Hey ladies. My name is Amy North. I’m a relationship coach from Western Canada.
Today I’m going to share with you the three most common thoughts a man has when he ignores you.
1. He wasn’t actually interested in you.
The first popular thought a man has when he ignores you is simple.
He never meant to show interest in you in the first place. When it comes to expressing interest in someone, it sounds like a straightforward task. However, it’s not hard to send mixed messages.
For instance, a man could tell you that you look beautiful or that you’re fun to be around. That doesn’t necessarily mean he wants to have a relationship with you.
If he feels that you’re misinterpreting his messages, then he may try to combat it by ignoring you. Yes, I know this sounds childish. But believe me. It happens.
The truth is, guys don’t ignore girls— especially when they like them.
Unlike women, it’s not as easy for a guy to play hard to get, unless of course he’s just toying with your feelings, in which case you don’t want to be with him anyways.
2. The chase is dead.
The second thought men have when they ignore women is that they’re bored because there’s no chase. You’re too obtainable. If you’ve been following me, then you probably know by now that men love the thrill of the chase.
That’s why it is so important for women to let men chase them. As the old saying goes, guys want what they can’t have; at least not what they can have easy.
When a man has to work to win you over, you become more valuable to him. Women often make the mistake of chasing the man they’re into. The problem is that it makes them feel like it didn’t take much work to get you, which in his mind devalues your worth.
To avoid mistakenly chasing him, pull back everything you’re throwing at him – communication, availability, the whole shebang. Be sure you’re not the one asking him to hang out.
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3. He’s annoyed with you.
The third reason why men ignore women is when they feel annoyed.
This one should be a bit more obvious. You should be able to track back and realize what you did to annoy him. But then again, it’s not always that easy.
You may completely overlook his reason for being annoyed or maybe you don’t even remember saying or doing whatever it is that got on his nerves.
This sounds absurd but it happens all the time. How many times have you seen, be it in real life or on TV, a situation where a woman is clearly annoyed by her man, but he has no clue why?
To make matters worse, she probably responds with, “I’m fine,” when he asks what’s wrong. You know what I’m talking about.
When a man is annoyed with you, his instinct reaction is to not be around you, hence why it feels like he’s ignoring you. The thing is, he may not even see it as ignoring, but rather that he needs some space to blow off steam.
If you feel like this is the case, then it’s important that you give him some time to cool off. If after a couple of days, you still haven’t heard from him, then you may want to reach out to him. If he responds, then ask him if something bothered him.
Once you know the things that make your man tick, you will be less likely to do them again in the future.
Did you know that there is a state of desire more powerful than love?
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If you have any questions or comments about what I’ve covered here, then please feel free to post those in the comments section below. Until next time, take care and all the best.