Lately, I’ve been on a little bit of a teen nostalgia kick. Maybe it’s because 90’s fashion is back everywhere.
Anyway, that’s what got me to create my other clean list of “Never Have I Ever” questions here.
Then I realized I was holding back on the good stuff.
“Never Have I Ever” is always fun—but let’s be honest, it gets a whole lot better when the questions are a little spicy.
If you’re hanging out with a group of adults who aren’t afraid to laugh, spill secrets, or blush a little, this list of spicy “Never Have I Ever” questions is for you.
A quick refresher about how to play (or in case you can’t quite remember the last time):
Everyone holds up one or two hands.
Take turns saying something you’ve never done, starting with “Never have I ever…”
If you have done it, you put a finger down— or take a sip if you’re playing with drinks.
Keep going until someone runs out of fingers or you’re all laughing too hard to care who wins.
Here you go:
💋 Flirty Never Have I Ever” Questions
1. Never have I ever kissed someone of the same sex.
2. Never have I ever made out with someone in public.
3. Never have I ever flirted with someone to get what I wanted.
4. Never have I ever kissed more than one person in 24 hours.
5. Never have I ever had a crush on a friend’s partner.
6. Never have I ever kissed someone I wasn’t supposed to.
7. Never have I ever flirted with a stranger in public.
8. Never have I ever kissed someone just to make someone else jealous.
9. Never have I ever kissed someone while still thinking about someone else.
10. Never have I ever made out at a wedding.
11. Never have I ever kissed someone in a hot tub.
12. Never have I ever worn something spicy under regular clothes.
13. Never have I ever worn lingerie or something revealing for someone.
14. Never have I ever gotten a lap dance.
15. Never have I ever given a lap dance.
🔥 Bold & Risky
16. Never have I ever had a one-night stand.
17. Never have I ever had sex on a first date.
18. Never have I ever hooked up with someone at work.
19. Never have I ever hooked up with someone I met online.
20. Never have I ever had sex outdoors.
21. Never have I ever had sex in a car.
22. Never have I ever had sex in the shower.
23. Never have I ever had sex somewhere risky just for the thrill.
24. Never have I ever had sex somewhere I definitely shouldn’t have.
25. Never have I ever snuck out for a hookup.
26. Never have I ever had a hookup that lasted all night.
27. Never have I ever hooked up with a stranger.
28. Never have I ever met someone and hooked up the same day.
29. Never have I ever hooked up on vacation.
30. Never have I ever joined the mile-high club (or tried to).
🤐 Secrets & Scandals
31. Never have I ever been someone’s “secret.”
32. Never have I ever had a friends-with-benefits situation.
33. Never have I ever hooked up with an ex.
34. Never have I ever hooked up with someone else’s ex.
35. Never have I ever had a hookup I don’t remember.
36. Never have I ever kept a secret hookup from everyone.
37. Never have I ever been ghosted after hooking up.
38. Never have I ever snooped through someone’s photos or texts.
39. Never have I ever slept with someone I wasn’t into.
40. Never have I ever had a secret fantasy about someone I shouldn’t.
41. Never have I ever had a crush on someone I shouldn’t have.
42. Never have I ever flirted with someone else while dating someone.
43. Never have I ever been someone’s first.
44. Never have I ever ghosted someone after something spicy happened.
45. Never have I ever read someone’s spicy messages when they weren’t looking.
🎭 Fantasy & Roleplay
46. Never have I ever sent a nude.
47. Never have I ever received a nude.
48. Never have I ever sexted someone.
49. Never have I ever sexted while at work.
50. Never have I ever had phone sex.
51. Never have I ever made a sex tape or video.
52. Never have I ever role-played.
53. Never have I ever used handcuffs or restraints.
54. Never have I ever been tied up.
55. Never have I ever done a striptease.
56. Never have I ever fantasized about someone in this room.
57. Never have I ever had a fantasy I haven’t shared.
58. Never have I ever used food during foreplay.
59. Never have I ever used whipped cream or chocolate sauce in bed.
60. Never have I ever used a mirror during sex.
😳 Oops & Awkward
61. Never have I ever been caught doing something NSFW.
62. Never have I ever been walked in on.
63. Never have I ever had an “oops” moment in the bedroom.
64. Never have I ever faked an orgasm.
65. Never have I ever said someone’s name wrong in bed.
66. Never have I ever flashed someone on purpose.
67. Never have I ever done something spicy at work.
68. Never have I ever been caught doing something in public.
69. Never have I ever used a fake name during a hookup.
70. Never have I ever texted someone something meant for someone else.
71. Never have I ever been dared to take something off.
72. Never have I ever made someone sneak out after.
73. Never have I ever played strip poker or a strip game.
74. Never have I ever gone commando.
75. Never have I ever had a “walk of shame.”
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🧪 Mix & Extras (Wildcard!)
76. Never have I ever had an online fling.
77. Never have I ever used a dating app just for the attention.
78. Never have I ever watched something spicy alone.
79. Never have I ever watched something spicy with someone else.
80. Never have I ever been on top.
81. Never have I ever had a hookup that turned into something more.
82. Never have I ever hooked up with more than one person in a week.
83. Never have I ever tried something I swore I never would.
84. Never have I ever done something spicy with someone I had just met.
85. Never have I ever tried to impress someone with something sexual.
86. Never have I ever joined a hookup and didn’t finish.
87. Never have I ever used a secret code word to talk about sex in public.
88. Never have I ever seen someone naked by accident.
89. Never have I ever kissed someone I didn’t know the name of.
90. Never have I ever kept a spicy selfie just for myself.
91. Never have I ever made up a fake backstory for a hookup.
92. Never have I ever had a spicy dream about someone in this room.
93. Never have I ever taken a spicy photo and deleted it right after.
94. Never have I ever had to hide evidence of a hookup.
95. Never have I ever pretended not to remember a hookup.
96. Never have I ever used toys in the bedroom.
97. Never have I ever tried to initiate and got turned down.
98. Never have I ever had a hookup where something broke.
99. Never have I ever practiced a move before doing it.
100. Never have I ever tried bdsm.
101. Never have I ever had a hookup I still think about.
There you go, 101 juicy “Never Have I Ever” questions to ask the next time you want to spice things up.
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