Want to make things more interesting? I’ve been on a nostalgia kick lately and was thinking back to what I used to do to break the ice when I didn’t know anyone in college.
It occurred to me that “Never Have I Ever” was always a good go-to way to both get to know people and it’s low maintenance. No setup, no props, and always good for a laugh.
You can play in person or over video, with friends, family, coworkers, or even on a first date. It’s fun, free, and a great way to get to know people (or find out what they’ve been hiding).
Here’s how to play “Never Have I Ever” in case you need a refresher:
Everyone holds up one hand (or two if you want a longer round). Take turns saying something you’ve never done, starting with “Never have I ever…”
If someone has done it, they put a finger down. Keep going until only one person has fingers left up—that’s your winner.
Some groups swap fingers for sips of a drink, especially if you want to add a little edge.
Next, you’ll find 110 clean “Never Have I Ever” questions that are safe, playful, and perfect for any crowd.
No weird stuff, no awkward silence—just good fun. And if you’re in the mood for something a little juicier, check out the spicy version here.
🧁 Light & Playful
1. Never have I ever eaten dessert for breakfast.
2. Never have I ever fallen asleep in public.
3. Never have I ever gotten the giggles at the worst possible moment.
4. Never have I ever tried to lick my elbow.
5. Never have I ever been on TV.
6. Never have I ever sung karaoke in front of strangers.
7. Never have I ever stayed up all night binge-watching a show.
8. Never have I ever tripped in front of a crowd.
9. Never have I ever danced like nobody was watching… only to find out someone was.
10. Never have I ever talked to my pet like they were a person.
11. Never have I ever named a car.
12. Never have I ever Googled myself.
13. Never have I ever worn pajamas to the store.
14. Never have I ever walked into the wrong restroom.
15. Never have I ever pretended to know the lyrics and just mumbled.
💋 Flirty or Romantic
16. Never have I ever had a crush on a friend’s sibling.
17. Never have I ever kissed someone I just met.
18. Never have I ever been on a blind date.
19. Never have I ever said “I love you” without meaning it.
20. Never have I ever had a dream about someone in this room.
21. Never have I ever flirted my way out of trouble.
22. Never have I ever kissed more than one person in a day.
23. Never have I ever written a love letter.
24. Never have I ever dated someone I met online.
25. Never have I ever made the first move.
26. Never have I ever sent a risky text… and regretted it.
27. Never have I ever stalked an ex on social media.
28. Never have I ever fallen for someone I wasn’t supposed to.
29. Never have I ever thought about getting back with an ex.
30. Never have I ever lied to get someone’s attention.
😳 A Little Embarrassing
31. Never have I ever called someone the wrong name.
32. Never have I ever accidentally liked an old photo while stalking.
33. Never have I ever sent a message to the wrong person.
34. Never have I ever laughed so hard I cried.
35. Never have I ever locked myself out of the house.
36. Never have I ever fallen asleep on a video call.
37. Never have I ever farted and blamed it on someone else.
38. Never have I ever worn something backwards all day.
39. Never have I ever gotten caught talking to myself.
40. Never have I ever spilled a secret I promised to keep.
🧠 Curious & Reflective
41. Never have I ever questioned everything I believed.
42. Never have I ever changed my mind about someone completely.
43. Never have I ever made a huge life decision on a gut feeling.
44. Never have I ever forgiven someone who didn’t apologize.
45. Never have I ever walked away from something I wanted.
46. Never have I ever stayed in a relationship too long.
47. Never have I ever felt like I didn’t recognize myself.
48. Never have I ever done something I thought I couldn’t do.
49. Never have I ever made peace with a difficult memory.
50. Never have I ever told someone a truth they didn’t want to hear.
🎉 Party & Daring
51. Never have I ever crashed a party.
52. Never have I ever snuck into a VIP section.
53. Never have I ever danced on a table.
54. Never have I ever gone skinny dipping.
55. Never have I ever broken the law (even a little).
56. Never have I ever lied to get into a club or concert.
57. Never have I ever had a shot before noon.
58. Never have I ever stayed out until the sun came up.
59. Never have I ever dared someone to do something I wouldn’t do.
60. Never have I ever pulled an all-nighter just for fun.
💼 Work & School
61. Never have I ever called in sick when I wasn’t.
62. Never have I ever fallen asleep at work.
63. Never have I ever gotten away with cheating on a test.
64. Never have I ever cried at work.
65. Never have I ever had a crush on a teacher or boss.
66. Never have I ever lied on my resume.
67. Never have I ever sent a risky message to a coworker.
68. Never have I ever walked out of a job.
69. Never have I ever been caught texting in class.
70. Never have I ever accidentally hit “Reply All.”
🧳 Travel & Adventure
71. Never have I ever gotten lost in a foreign country.
72. Never have I ever traveled alone.
73. Never have I ever missed a flight.
74. Never have I ever pretended not to be a tourist.
75. Never have I ever eaten something I couldn’t identify.
76. Never have I ever gotten motion sickness.
77. Never have I ever booked a trip on impulse.
78. Never have I ever slept in an airport.
79. Never have I ever hitchhiked.
80. Never have I ever gotten a passport stamp I didn’t expect.
📱Technology & Pop Culture
81. Never have I ever rewatched a childhood show just for nostalgia.
82. Never have I ever taken a selfie in the bathroom.
83. Never have I ever posted something and deleted it immediately.
84. Never have I ever bought something just because an influencer told me to.
85. Never have I ever argued with a stranger online.
86. Never have I ever lied about liking a movie everyone else loved.
87. Never have I ever texted during a movie in the theater.
88. Never have I ever played a video game for more than 6 hours straight.
89. Never have I ever used a fake name online.
90. Never have I ever Googled someone before a date.
🕵️♀️ Secrets & Guilty Pleasures
91. Never have I ever kept a big secret from someone close to me.
92. Never have I ever pretended not to see someone I knew.
93. Never have I ever stolen something small just for the thrill.
94. Never have I ever looked through someone’s phone.
95. Never have I ever lied to protect someone else.
96. Never have I ever listened in on a private conversation.
97. Never have I ever told a lie and instantly regretted it.
98. Never have I ever read someone’s diary or journal.
99. Never have I ever pretended to like something just to fit in.
100. Never have I ever taken the blame for something I didn’t do.
🎭 Just For Laughs
101. Never have I ever used a fake accent for longer than five minutes.
102. Never have I ever prank-called someone.
103. Never have I ever laughed at something I wasn’t supposed to.
104. Never have I ever done a TikTok dance in secret.
105. Never have I ever had a full conversation with a voice assistant.
106. Never have I ever played dead to avoid something.
107. Never have I ever pretended I understood when I didn’t.
108. Never have I ever Googled how to spell a really basic word.
109. Never have I ever tried to eavesdrop and got caught.
110. Never have I ever laughed so hard I made someone else spit out their drink.
There you have it, 110 never have I ever questions to break the ice the next time you want to make things more interesting.