So, you’ve been seeing this guy, but you know that he’s a bit of a “player”.
In other words, you’re not the only woman in his life. That said, you really like him, and want to make him commit to you, and only you. How do you do it?
Hey, Ladies, my name is Amy North. I’m a dating coach from Vancouver, BC and today I want to cover a topic that comes up quite a bit. And, that’s how to get a player to commit to a relationship.
To begin, let’s jump back to the word “player.”
The Urban Dictionary defines player as, “a male who is skilled at manipulating others, and especially at seducing women by pretending to care about them when in reality he’s only interested in sex”.
So, how do you tie this guy down and make him commit to you?
The secret to getting a player to commit is to meet his needs in a way that he can’t on his own.
Now, I know you’re probably thinking that this sounds complicated, but when you get to the root of it, it’s actually quite simple.
Here’s the thing:
All men, regardless of whether they’re in a committed relationship or players who sleep with a different woman every night, have similar wants and needs. For instance, needs like excitement, approval, or acceptance.
Again, I know it sounds strange, but think about it for a moment. A guy who is sleeping with a different woman every night is looking for the kind of exciting thrill, and enjoys the acceptance he feels of knowing that he can get so many different women.
On the other hand, a man in a committed relationship stays happy when he still feels excited about growing together with his partner and enjoys the acceptance he feels that his woman still wants him.
As you can see here, both men are trying to have the same needs met, but they’re doing so in different ways.
In order to get a player to commit to you, you have to know how to meet his needs in a greater way than he’d be able to if he were single. In other words, you need to bring something to his life that other women aren’t.
When you do, he’ll only want you.
Once he does commit to you, it’s important that you keep adding value to his life. To do so, it’s crucial that you understand and fulfill his needs.
For instance, things like keeping the chase alive between you and showing him that you appreciate him will keep him committed to you.
Now, that’s a whole other topic for another day. But, if you want to learn more about how to make a man commit, then visit my website and watch the free presentation.
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