Antasha Durbin

Antasha Durbin is a single mama, spiritual writer, life-long student of the universe & psychic tarot card reader. Her website, cajspirituality.com, is dedicated to casualizing the spiritual experience and making it attainable for anyone, anywhere, anytime. Follow her for free, easy-to-digest and highly actionable advice on spirituality, mindfulness and empowered living.

Dating Advice

How To Date As A Single Mom: One Savvy Mama Spills Her Secrets

Lessons learned after one single mother got back out and successfully met the one after going through heartbreak.

Expert Breakup Advice

Expecting A Man To “Save You” Is FUTILE, So Here’s How To Do It Yourself

If you want a man to save you, you’re in luck. You can do it yourself without losing yourself in your relationship or going through more heartbreak.

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Understanding Women

5 Things You’re Doing That Turn Her OFF (And What To Do Instead)

Learn the top dating mistakes men make that secretly turn women off. Discover why a lack of initiative and bad communication sabotage relationships. Get actionable advice on what women actually want in a partner for lasting attraction.

6 Uncomfortable Ways You’re Unconsciously Sabotaging Your Love (And Your Life)

Relationship Advice

6 Uncomfortable Ways You’re Unconsciously Sabotaging Your Love (And Your Life)

Unconscious self-sabotage can undermine even the most promising relationships. Ignoring your own needs and boundaries often leads to resentment and lost connection. Investing in love while neglecting self-awareness could be pushing happiness further away.

Dating Advice

5 Signs Your Crappy Valentine’s Day Relationship Will Fail (And What To Do Instead)

Spot the red flags of a doomed Valentine’s Day relationship before it’s too late. Learn why rushing into love just for the holiday sets you up for heartbreak. Discover healthier, lasting alternatives to avoid typical Valentine’s Day mistakes.

Sex

When The Sex Is Amazing, But He’s Definitely NOT “The One”

Having casual sex with someone? Writer Antasha Durbin explores her casual sex fling with someone completely wrong and why it was transformative for her sexual life.