self-sabotage

Relationship Mistakes Were Made, But Definitely Not By Me

Relationship Mistakes Were Made, But Definitely Not By Me

“You Can Be Right, Or You Can Have a Good Relationship.” -My college relationship psychology professor First, let me start by saying if you’ve been in an abusive relationship, you have my genuine sympathy and love. It’s monumentally difficult to trust anyone after these kind of things happen, and they are sort of life experiences that …

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5 Embarrassing Relationship Mistakes I Made So You Don’t Have To

Today, I want to share the story of one of my embarrassing failed romances from before I was the author and relationship coach I am today. I’m going to call this man, “Sleeping Bag Man” or SBM for short. When he moved to the state I lived in, he was still waiting for his furniture to …

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How to Stop Being Controlling In Your Relationship

Do you struggle with being too controlling? Have you had your partner mention that you’re a control freak? Do you feel uncomfortable when things don’t go the way you would expect? I understand that there may be a lot of underlying feelings and thoughts behind the need to feel like you’re in control.  I’m not …

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How To Stop Self-Sabotage In A Relationship

How to Stop Self-Sabotage in Your Relationship

Self-sabotage  is a funny thing. Everything is going great, and WHAM. It’s like a bomb goes off, and the bizarre behavior begins. I used to have a huge tendency toward majorly fucking up relationships right around the 6-7 month mark. It would always be right after things were going really, really well. I would start …

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