So, maybe you’ve finally landed the man of your dreams and you’re scared of boring him. You want your love to be spicy and mysterious, and you want to keep your man continually interested but you may feel lost. Well there are tons of things you can do to not only get him, but keep him interested for the long haul.
Men love to be loved, and if you take an interest in his interests you will light up his world.
He wants to know you love him, and you can easily show your feelings by putting forth the effort to get to know his likes and dislikes.
Even if you have always hated sports try and watch a game or two of his favorite sport with him. You do not have to lie about whether you like it or not, but if you genuinely try and like something he loves he will appreciate you.
Most women have a tendency to put down guys for their love of sports, but there are a few that get it. If you share any interest in sports and want to sit through a few games, give it a try. You will start to see that he will do the same for you as you get to know him better.
Another way to keep things spicy is by being spontaneous.
One of the greatest reasons men cite for leaving their girlfriend is that things became boring. But this is completely avoidable if you stay spontaneous.
Of course, this doesn’t mean you have to go sky diving one week and then have sex on the beach the next. It simply means you stay slightly mysterious and fun. Being predictable is overrated, look for unique things for the both of you to do and don’t be a stick in the mud when he comes up with something crazy to do.
Men may appear intimidating on the outside, but in reality deep down they are still just little boys. They like for you to build them up, but also to be their shoulder to cry on. Keep them interested in you by providing them with what they need both emotionally and physically. You don’t have to sit them down at the end of the day and be their therapist. You simply have to ask them how they feel in casual settings.
If he feels like you truly care for him he won’t be able to help being drawn to you.
Obviously, one of the most important things to men is sex. They crave it constantly whether they will admit it or not, and if it gets boring they will quickly lose interest. Take the initiative to spice up your sex life by buying new lingerie, trying a new move, or surprising him with a quickie. Trust us. He will love it if you keep things interesting in the bedroom.
Independence is also very important in any relationship. If you have recently started a new relationship it is more important than ever to be independent without losing the intimacy between your boyfriend and yourself. Men hate clingy, and if you come across as needy they are sure to lose interest in you. Besides, who wants to go around acting like you have to have a man? Be confident and offer him mystery and he will stay interested in you.
If you stay spontaneous, independent, and interested in him he will stay interested in you.