Every day, I get literally hundreds of emails from people all over the world asking me their most pressing questions about their marriage.
People share with me their relationship stories that took years to unfold in a couple of short paragraphs and then end with, “What should I do?”
In most cases, it took years for their marriage to give birth to this question. And the cause of their circumstances lies in the roots of their marital scripting and personal scripting.
Nonetheless, they want an answer now and they want it in a reply email.
And you thought YOU had a tough job.
In the age of high-speed internet and seven-day diet, it’s quite common for people to want to microwave their marriage to renewal.
That will never work.
When it comes to things you can be efficient.
When it comes to relationships, there are no shortcuts. Relationships take time.
Ironically, the search for a quick answer to your marital situation delays the process you’ll eventually have to go through.
When it comes to your marriage, slow is fast and fast is slow.
In other words, if you try to go too fast and skip over the necessary steps, you’ll slow down the whole process.
But if you go slow and rebuild your marriage one step at a time, that’s the fastest way to saving your marriage.
I know you have questions, good questions, deep questions. But give those questions the respect they deserve.
Give yourself the time and resources it takes to formulate lasting answers.
Don’t waste your time looking for a quick fix. That’s the slow road to repairing your marriage.
The fastest way and the most effective way is to follow a detailed plan and take it one step at a time.
A successful marriage is not something that just happens; you have to craft it. It’s a result of deliberate and conscience decisions to make a new way in your relationship.
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