Are you rushing around looking for love in seedy bars and spending your entire life looking at your phone afraid that you are going to miss out on “the one”?
Do you think the guy you are talking to online is the only man in the universe?
There are oodles of men out there with the exact qualities that you are looking for.
How do you get a man like this?
1. Do whatever you need to do to feel good first.
If you are checking your text messages in between shaving your legs and washing your hair you are rushing. Slow down and enjoy whatever it is you are doing right this minute.
2. Get as clear as glass on EXACTLY what you are looking for.
Make a list of the kind of man that you’re ultimately interested in ending up with.
What is it that is important to you? It’s time to get clear on what qualities you want and deserve in a partner.
Here are some examples:
• Financially secure
• Doesn’t swear like a sailor
• Calls his mom on mother’s day
• Can handle if you are crying and has a shoulder for you to lean on
• Someone who calls you enough that you feel safe and secure
• A man who knows how to be sweet and pounce on you like a tiger when the time is right
• Doesn’t mess with your head, but keeps you on your toes
• Isn’t boring
• Holds the door for you but is naughty after he has turned you on all day with text messages filled with sexual innuendos
• Thinks you are the most beautiful woman in the world even after you cleaned house all day
3. Trust that love is out there for you.
Know you are deserving of exactly what you want. But you have to know what this looks like.
A lot of people are single because they are wishing washy and not clear on what it is they are looking for.
4. Put yourself out there.
Heroes are scared too. Be courageous to put yourself out there, flirt and get in tune with your feminine receptivity.
5. Don’t settle down with one guy until your needs are met.
Keep your options open until you discuss having an exclusive relationship.
This does not mean you are dating men to make him jealous. This does mean dating other men until he is inspired to make you his one and only.
Learn the art of allowing and not trying to control outside sources. Take care of yourself and don’t be afraid to let love in.