Today I want to talk about what to do if you’ve gone through the whole act of going through the no contact rule. Then it comes time to reach out to your ex, and you do that.
Maybe you contact your ex using some of the templates that we give you in the Ex Solutions Program, but they don’t respond or write back.
What does it mean when you get that sort of radio silence on from your ex?
I want you to know that it’s not necessarily a bad thing if your ex won’t text you back right away after no contact.
It doesn’t mean that you blew your chances at getting back together and it’s not going to work out, or anything like that.
Often times, your ex may need a little bit of time to really percolate on what you said or what they are going through themselves. They need time to really decide on their own if they want to reach out to you or if it’s in their best interest to reach out to you.
And, just because you sent your ex a message and they don’t respond back to you immediately or within a day, that’s not necessarily a bad thing.
It just means that your message is in there, it’s having an impact.
It may just take a little bit of time for it to work its way through for them to realize, “Okay, yeah, I should probably get back to this person and just say ‘Hey’, or just respond.”
It can take, sometimes, several weeks for them to make that decision. And, it’s okay.
Don’t make a big deal about how your ex responds.
Getting your ex back is not always this like chain reaction of like, “A” happens, then “B” immediately happens.
Sometimes there’s a bit of a lag between those two, and when you’re reaching out to your ex, this is definitely one of those cases when there’s that lag.
So, don’t freak out if your ex doesn’t write you back right away.
Generally, what we recommend is, if they don’t write back, it’s okay to contact them again about a week later.
But, again, we talk about that in the program. We tell you exactly how to contact your ex.
You want to keep perspective and focus. Things don’t necessarily have to happen immediately.
You can actually have a deep impact on your ex without it necessarily showing up on the surface right away.
All hope is not lost if they don’t write back right away.
It may just be a matter of time before your ex gets back to you. It may just be a matter of waiting a few more days, or a week or two, before they actually respond back to you.
I hope that helps you out and gives you a little bit more perspective on how things work and also not to give up hope if you’re not getting that response right away from your ex.
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