Getting dumped sucks, but your breakup doesn’t have to be permanent.
You can drive yourself crazy thinking about all the things that went wrong in your relationship with your girlfriend. The reasons you could come up with on your own could be really endless, but agonizing over what happened isn’t really helping you. If you have been strategizing about how to get your ex girlfriend back by going over what happened during your breakup, stop it right now.
The bottom line here is that the reason why your relationship ended is because your girlfriend ultimately lost her attraction for you.
No, it wasn’t because you left your dirty laundry around the house or that it’s “her, not you…”, it’s because the foundation of her attraction for you faded, and it’s your fault.
Though there are ways you can “re-attract” your girlfriend (and I’ll get to that in a second), you have to first understand why she dumped you. Only then will you know how you can get her back.
This is what I like to call the six deadly relationship sins.
Now, I’m not saying that you committed all of these relationship mistakes, but chances are you probably exhibited at least one of these characteristics that pretty much forced her to leave you (even if she has told you that she left you for another reason).
1. Seeking her approval too often.
Always seeking external validity from your girlfriend is a huge attraction killer.
What does that mean?
It means that you constantly seek out your girlfriend’s approval.
When you ask her questions like:
“Do you love me?”
“Do think I’m fit enough?
“Is my penis big enough for you?”
“Did you have a good time?”
These kind of insecure questions are really repellent to women. She might not mind if you ask these questions once in a very long while.
However, if you act like this often, you might as well just tell her you aren’t good enough for her. This kind of behavior reeks of insecurity. After too much of that, a woman will feel like your mom or like she’s dating a total wuss. Neither really keeps her glued to your side.
The more you tell her you aren’t good enough far her by being insecure, the more she’ll believe that there is some other guy out there for her.
2. Being jealous.
The third deadly sin is being jealous with her.
Were you jealous and worried that she was flirting with other guys?
Maybe she was hanging out with a guy friend that you felt suspicious about… Well, if you took the jealously too far, then again, don’t be surprised that your girlfriend lost some attraction for you.
Jealousy is the ultimate form of insecurity.
3. Trying to control her.
The first Deadly Sin is a common problem that over half of men have in their relationships – and that’s being way too controlling.
Women are repelled by men who are overbearing and try to put unrealistic restraints on their lives.
Even though asserting your male dominance in a relationship is important, you have to know exactly when to stop. If you don’t know when enough is enough, then you can’t be surprised that she left you for being too controlling.
“You must love in such a way that the person you love feels free.” — Thich Nhat Hanh
Now that you know just a few of the main relationship killers, how do you get your girlfriend back?
Getting your ex girlfriend back starts with employing some of my most powerful psychological techniques.
Even if things seem completely hopeless right now, you can usually get her back if you know what you’re doing.
Let me first introduce myself. My name is Brad Browning and I’m known as the “Relationship Geek.” I have spent my career helping thousands of men across the globe win back their ex-girlfriends. My success rate is over 90%.
Even if you think your relationship with your ex girlfriend is completely destroyed forever, I bet you there is a way to make her fall hopelessly in love with you again (or at least make her want to hop in bed with you again).
What a lot of men do when they get dumped is start acting like complete wussy fools.
They start begging for her forgiveness and tell her they would do anything under the sun for a second chance. This only makes her want to run further away from you.
If you’re guilty of making any of these mistakes while trying to get your ex girlfriend back, then you better start listening to my advice now.
Chances are you’re doing something at this very moment which is only pushing your girlfriend further and further away into the arms of another man.
Do yourself a favor and check out my presentation.
In it, I tell you exactly how to ex your girlfriend back as soon as possible… and I’ll go over some other deadly sins as well.
But you better check out this video quickly because I have extreme groups protesting me to take it down. Some women think the psychological techniques I use in this video are too manipulative (in other words, they work too well).
Again, be quick about it before it’s taken down forever.