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“Why Is He Ignoring Me?” 3 Reasons Why He’s Distant
When a guy you’re interested in starts ignoring you, it can feel like the end of the world. You start questioning, “why is he ignoring me”? and may even trace back to your every move to see where you went wrong.
Unfortunately for us women, it is not an easy task to pinpoint the reason why your man gives you the cold shoulder.
What if I told you that you can prevent this from happening by knowing what a man is thinking when he ignores you? Well, that is exactly what I’m about to share here today.
Hey, ladies. My name is Amy North. I’m a relationship coach from western Canada and author of the bestselling program, The Devotion System.
Today, I’m going to share with you the three most common thoughts a man has when he ignores you.
1. He isn’t interested.
The first popular thought a man has when he starts to ignore you is simple. He never meant to show interest in you in the first place.
When it comes to expressing interest in someone, it sounds like a straightforward task. However, it’s not hard to send mixed messages. For instance, a man could tell you that you look beautiful or that you’re fun to be around and that doesn’t necessarily mean he wants to have a relationship with you.
If he feels that you’re misinterpreting his messages then he may try to combat it by ignoring you.
Yes, I know these sounds childish but believe me— it happens.
The truth is, guys don’t ignore girls— especially— when they like them.
Unlike us women, it’s not as easy for a guy to play hard to get unless he’s just toying with your feelings, in which case, you don’t want to be with him anyway.
2. He’s bored.
The second thought men have when they ignore women is that they are bored because there is no chase. You’re too obtainable.
You probably know by now that men love the thrill of the chase. That’s why it is so important for women to let men chase them.
As the old saying goes, guys want what they can’t have, at least not what they can’t have easy.
When a man has to work to win you over, you become more valuable to him. Women often make the mistake of chasing men they are into. The problem is that chasing makes him feel like it didn’t take much work to get you, which in his mind, devalues your worth.
To avoid mistakenly chasing him, pull back everything you are throwing at him— communication, availability, the whole shebang. Be sure you’re not the one asking him to hang out.
3. He’s annoyed with you.
Now, the third reason why men ignore women is when they feel annoyed.
This one should be a bit more obvious, I mean you should be able to track back and realize what you did to annoy him. But then again, it’s not always that easy.
You may completely overlook his reason for being annoyed or maybe you don’t even remember saying or doing whatever it is that got on his nerves. This sounds absurd but it happens all the time.
How many times have you seen, be it in real life or on TV— a situation where a woman is clearly annoyed by her man but he has no clue why? To make matters worse, she probably responds with, “I’m fine” when he asks what’s wrong. You know what I’m talking about.
When a man is annoyed with you, his instinct reaction is to not be around you. Hence, why it feels like he’s ignoring you. The thing is he may not even see that as ignoring but rather that he needs his space to blow off steam.
If you feel like this is the case, then it’s important that you give him some time to cool off. If after a couple of days you still haven’t heard from him then you may want to reach out to him. If he responds, then ask him if something is bothering him.
Once you know the things that make your man ticked off, you’ll be less likely to do them again in the future.
If you want him to stop ignoring you for good, then you need to watch my video presentation which explains my “Phone Phrenzy” tactic which will compel him to get in touch like it’s his last day on Earth.
In that video, I also explain a few other key things like the top three reasons why men pull away, and how to make him fantasize about spending the rest of his life with you.
Well, that’s just about it for this article. Thanks so much for reading. If you have any questions or comments about what I’ve covered here then please feel free to post those in the comment section below. Until next time, take care and all the best.