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The #1 Secret To How To Attract Men (Hint: It’s NOT Your Looks)
When it comes to how to attract men, it’s common for women to think that they have to look or act a certain way to be seen as beautiful or sexy.
What if I told you that the number one most attractive characteristic to men actually has little to do with looks? Well, it’s true!
Hey ladies, I’m Amy North, a relationship coach from Vancouver, Canada.
Today, I want to share with you what I consider to be one of the best-kept secrets when it comes to how to attract men.
After talking to many different men, I’ve come to learn that physically, there is no such thing as one “ideal woman”.
What one man finds attractive, another does not, and vice versa. This means that there’s absolutely no need for you to turn yourself inside-out to be sexy or desired by men. Sure, some men find certain traits attractive, but as cheesy as it sounds, what’s on the outside doesn’t count as much as what is on the inside.
Being drop-dead-gorgeous has nothing to do with your eye color or your dress size. It’s all about having the right attitude and being sure of yourself, which means that the number one most attractive characteristic to men is certainty. This also translates to courage, confidence, fearlessness, tenacity, the list goes on and on.
At the root of how to be attractive to men is positive belief in yourself. Being certain of your wants, dreams and beliefs, having the courage and poise to stand up for them, and being bold enough to stick by them, will make you ooze sex appeal. Since men want to be with women who are confident, showing him this side of you will make him crazy with desire for you.
To better paint the picture, let me tell you a quick story about two women I know. To protect their privacy, and for the sake of this story, I’m going to call them Jamie and Robyn.
Jamie is the kind of woman that turns heads. She’s tall, has a supermodel-like figure and bright blue eyes. Her makeup is always on point and her outfit looks as though she stepped out of a saucy billboard. But asides from her good looks, Jamie is quiet, uninteresting, and pretty self-absorbed.
Robyn on the other hand is borderline opposite. She’s short and some may say stubby. She dresses modestly and wears her poofy hair wild and free. Her idea of putting on makeup includes a quick flick of mascara and some finishing powder to hide the blemishes on her cheeks. She’s friendly, funny, knows what she wants and she isn’t afraid to stand up for what she believes in.
When it comes to men, you may think they’d be interested with Jamie, but since Robyn is the one showing absolute confidence, guys are more attracted to her.
Why? Because men can tell when a woman is trying to impress them versus being genuinely confident, and if you don’t have confidence in yourself, why would they?
A great thing about being certain of yourself is that it makes you glow with positivity.
Since no man wants to around a negative Nancy or sulky Susan, seeing the good in situations and being able to take what life throws at you is super admirable and attractive.
This kind of confidence also tends to make you more trustworthy and dependable. Think about it from a woman’s perspective for a moment, would you rather be with a guy who has himself together, or someone who is constantly all over the place?
There’s no need to even say it. But, one of these guys you know you can depend on, and the other, not so much.
This also brings me to my next point that being certain of yourself is inspiring. When a man sees that you have yourself together, it will inspire him to do the same. When you can be confident enough to motivate a man like this, it will challenge him to be his best possible self.
Since men love challenges, having the ability to do this will not only to attract him but it’ll keep him hooked. Instead of letting yourself get wrapped up in insecurities, learn how to love who you are and celebrate it for all the world to see. Do the things that make you happy and be open to trying new things and taking chances. When you find that courage and self love in yourself, you’ll have men chasing you for a chance to be with you.
For some powerful, life changing tips on how to become your most attractive self, visit my website and download my free guide. Trust me, you’ll find it extremely helpful. I know this because many women have told me so.
Did you know that there is a state of desire more powerful than love?
To learn a stupidly simple technique that makes men obsess over you, head over to my website and watch the free presentation there now.
Well, that’s all for today. I hope you enjoyed it. If have any questions or feedback that you’d like to share, then feel free to post those in the comments below. Until next time, take care and good luck!