What Does it REALLY Mean When He Closes His Eyes During Sex?

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You are in bed together…

Passionately in the moment…

Feeling so intimately connected…

And then…

He closes his eyes in order to get to the “finish line”.

What exactly does it mean?

If you are like a lot of women, you might wonder if he closes his eyes during sex because he’s retreating into some vivid fantasy world.

It’s easy to wonder, is he thinking about another woman while he’s in bed with you?

I’m happy to tell you that his closing his eyes during sex really has nothing to do with escaping from the moment with you and everything to do with actually enjoying the intense sensations happening.

For most guys, they put a certain amount of mental effort toward holding BACK on climaxing during sex.

They want to last longer, to please you more, and not race to the finish.

So when they actually do shift gears into allowing their orgasm to happen, the physical sensations are powerful. Closing his eyes allows him to fully tune in to what is happening pleasure-wise in his body.

It was explained to me in this way: When you take away one of the five senses, it makes the other senses and sensations stronger and more vivid.

When I surveyed my Man Panel when writing The Language of Desire (and the sexy secondary product, The Sensual Tsunami) about what male orgasm feels like, they set me straight.

One man told me:

“It’s like a slow-building roller coaster that takes a very sharp incline almost straight up before you rocket straight back down. And you get this amazing feeling in your stomach right before you climax and then for the next 10-15 seconds the floor drops out and you are drifting in bliss. Then you come back to reality.”

With that kind of intensity, he isn’t even keeping track of what his eyes are doing!

You can also think about it like kissing.

We close our eyes when we kiss not because we want to disconnect from the moment but because it actually draws our awareness closer to what is taking place physically. Except when it comes to orgasm, it’s about a million times more physical fireworks.

Could he be thinking about another woman when he closes his eyes during sex?

Sure, it’s possible he’s mentally fantasizing about making love to a Victoria’s Secret model while he’s in bed with you.

Just like sometimes you might close your eyes and think about Brad Pitt or Denzel Washington…or whoever floats the little man in your boat. Fantasizing in that manner isn’t a bad thing.

It’s totally normal and most people (both men and women) close their eyes and fantasize in bed, on occasion.

And fantasy doesn’t damage your relationship when it’s something that happens once in awhile, especially when it includes a celebrity or someone you aren’t ever actually going to even meet… let alone get naked with.

Still worried?

If you’ve ever been in bed with a man and had him close his eyes and seem to “go somewhere else” you have to go watch my video right away

This short little video reveals even more about the truth about what men are thinking about when they’re in bed with a woman (when they SHOULD be focused 100% mind, body and soul on you)…

In it, I teach you EXACTLY what to say and do to get him to SNAP back to you like a rubber band… look you right in the eye… and feel an incredible level of connection between you that you simply never thought was possible before… See it here now.

Felicity Keith

About Felicity Keith

Felicity is the author of the bestselling, smash hit program, The Language of Desire.

Candid and sincere, Felicity Keith dishes advice about sex, dating, and relationships with humor and healthy how-to’s. Her work has influenced thousands of women and she is a regular contributor at Digital Romance, Inc.

Dubbed a “suburban Carrie Bradshaw”, she spent years in the dating trenches making every mistake possible… until she finally wised up. In the process, her observations about the inner workings of the male mind resulted in a love-life 180. Now she teaches women how to unleash their inner vixen on their terms and enjoy the love they deserve.

One Comment

  1. Kegesa Danvas

    May 28, 2017 at 4:51 am

    Great article. Realised that I also close my eyes during the act. It has nothing to do with cheating and everything to do with intense feelings.

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