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What Do Men Want From Women?
One of the common questions asked by a lot of women would have to be, “What do men want?” Most women don’t know exactly what men want from them and the sad part is most women have sort of… incorrect perceptions of what men want.
Often, women assume that for men it’s all about sex. Well, ladies, let me correct that. Here are a few things you might want to consider in order to attract a man.
Take Care of Yourself
Men want a woman who knows how to take care of herself and makes sure that she looks good. It is attractive for men when a woman knows how to pamper herself because it shows that she makes time to take care of her health and body. So, women should take care of themselves, not only with regard to their appearance, but also with their health and wellness. The more a woman looks healthy, the more she looks attractive to men.
You Must Know What You Want
One of the many things that makes a woman more attractive is when she knows what she wants. Most men don’t like to guess what the woman wants. This shows that the woman is too dependent and can end up being a major turn off. A woman who knows what she wants is a trait of an independent woman, and men like women who are independent. Make sure that you know what you are looking for in a guy, you know what you want in life and you know what you are aiming for. In other words, you should be able to make decisions on your own and have plans for how to get what you want in your life as a whole.
You Should Be Easygoing
Men also want to be with a woman who is easygoing, a woman who is game with everything. Men find it really attractive when women can enjoy anything under the sun. If you really don’t enjoy whatever he wants to do, be subtle about it. Let him know you don’t like doing something, but try not to make it a big production. Just say something simple like “honey, I know you love ………. but next time, do you mind if I go to the spa (or wherever) instead?” As much as you should be easygoing about what he wants to do, don’t fake it.
Speak Your Mind
Men appreciate it when a woman tells them directly what is on her mind. Don’t fall into the trap of assuming he can read your mind, or SHOULD know what you want. Men often feel completely frustrated in guessing because they fear that they may guess incorrectly and still upset you. Most guys want to solve the problems right away. They are hard wired to be problem-solvers. If they don’t know what the issue is, it becomes frustrating. Bonus, the clearer you are, the more you get what you want from him (and we all want that, yes?). So stop making him play the guessing game.
Of course, “What do men want?” is a pretty broad question. Depending on the moment, it could be a hot dog or car parts. Women tend to spend a lot of time thinking about how to please their man which is adorable, except, remember that you’re often the most attractive to him when you’re passionate about what you want.
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