5 Signs A Guy Is NOT Going To Marry You (And Waiting Around Is A Complete Waste Of Time)

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Maybe you’ve met a guy and he seems really great. Maybe he’s even your boyfriend. Maybe the two of you have even been dating each other for a long time. Maybe you even live together.

But part of you is wondering, “Will we ever get married?” I’m guessing you probably want to get married at some point or else you wouldn’t be reading this. Maybe you’re wondering if he’s on the same wavelength when it comes to getting married.

Today, we’re going to be talking about five signs a guy is not going to marry you.

Let’s go ahead and get right into this.

1. You don’t seem to fit into his future.

The first sign a guy will not marry you is that you don’t really seem to be anywhere in his future.

You talk to him about the future.

You talk to him about what he wants to do and what his plans are.

But you’ve noticed that there’s a key component missing, and that’s you.

Maybe if he talks about how he wants to travel around the world or start a business but you noticed that you’re not essentially in that picture.

When he’s painting a vision for the life that he wants to live but you’re not in that picture, it means that he’s probably not planning on bringing you along for the ride.

Now, if you just met the guy, that’s one thing. But if you’ve known him for a while and it could definitely be something serious, it’s worth noting when it comes to whether or not he might actually marry you.

2. He’s not that interested in you and your future.

The second sign is that he doesn’t really take much of an interest in you and your future.

If a guy wants to marry you, if he wants to know where you want to things to go, what you’re thinking about down the road, and what you see for the future.

If he’s not really taking much of an interest in that then maybe he just doesn’t care. Maybe he’s not interested in your future because again, he’s not planning on being around to see all that stuff unfold.

3. He’s there for the good times, but disappears for the bad times.

The third sign he’s not going to marry you is that he’s there to celebrate the good times like when you got that job promotion, heard that good news, or won that contest. But he’s not really there for you during the bad times like when you had that argument with your friend, lost your job, got into a car wreck or you just needed somebody to talk to.

That shows that he’s not really there for you for the whole spectrum of life because marriage is about not just the good times. No matter what your relationship is like there’s going to be ups and downs.

If he’s not interested in being there through those down times then chances are he’s probably not very interested in actual, real marriage.

He might be interested in like the concept of having a fun event like a wedding but probably not actually the process of being in a real marriage.

4. He has a hard time with commitment in general.

The fourth sign that he might not ever marry you is that he has a hard time committing in general to things in his life.

Maybe he has a hard time committing to a career, deciding where he wants to live or deciding to do with his free time.

He might pick up something, try it for a week or two and then get bored with it and toss it and go on to the next thing and try that for another week or two and get bored with it and toss it.

If he just has a hard time committing to things in general or even answering small questions you ask like, “What do you want to do this week?” or “Do you want to go check out this one place this weekend?”

He says, “I don’t know. I’ll see what comes up, man. Maybe I’ll come or maybe I won’t. I don’t know yet.”

If he has a hard time committing to that kind of basic stuff then that could definitely be a sign that he might have a hard time committing to something bigger like marriage. That’s definitely something to keep your eye out for and to be wary of.

5. All of his exes are “crazy.”

The fifth sign that a guy might not marry you is that all of his ex-girlfriends are crazy.

If he has a lot of crazy ex-girlfriends, that could say a little bit about where he’s at in terms of himself and his relationship with women. But it can also be him coming up with reasons to bail on relationships.

Some of these women may have been great, wonderful women. I mean sure, some of them may have been crazy. I mean we all have crazy ex-“girlfriends” in some form or another, right? Or is it just me? I don’t know.

Anyway, if he says a lot of his girlfriends are “crazy” then that just means that probably many of them were decent, wonderful women who probably (like you) wanted a commitment from him at some point.

In order to invent a reason for not committing to those women, he might have come up with some sort of belief that they’re crazy and started accusing them of being like crazy or needy or clingy, and then used that as an excuse to end the relationship and walk away.

Now he has a story to tell himself like, “Oh, she was crazy because she wanted to get married (and trap me).”

So, that’s something to think about when it comes to trying to figure out if a guy has no intention of marrying you.

I hope that you have NOT seen your guy at all in these signs a man is not going to marry you that I’ve told you. But if you did, it’s best to approach this commitment problem now rather than later.

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Clay Andrews

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