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How To Be More Attractive To Men… Immediately
When you hear the word “attractive”, you probably think of gorgeous model-type women. Why? That’s what the media has distinguished as attractive.
What if I told you that becoming instantly more attractive has nothing to do with a fit body, flawless skin, or hair of the gods. Intrigued?
Hey, Ladies, my name is Amy North. I’m a relationship coach from the west coast of Canada, and author of the bestselling program, The Devotion System.
Today I’m going to share with you a little-known secret for how to be more attractive to men.
As I mentioned, this doesn’t require you to hit the gym every day for the next six months, go on a crazy diet, or get a complete makeover.
After all, I did say “instantly” more attractive. So, what is this magical secret, and how is it possible to boost your attractiveness with the snap of a finger?
Allow me to explain.
The most attractive people are not the ones who are perfect.
Instead, the most attractive people are the ones who can be confident in spite of whatever it is that makes them feel less perfect about themselves, be it their weight, skin, face, height, etc.
What makes them so attractive is the fact that they don’t allow the things that aren’t perfect about themselves to throw them off their game.
They don’t give their looks the power to make them feel less than unstoppable.
They don’t believe that others will like them less or find them less attractive because of their shortcomings.
Instead, they accept themselves for who they are and decide to be the best version of themselves possible.
They do this by being fun, outgoing, interesting, and passionate.
In other words, they do this by being confident.
The problem is, humans in general tend to worry about what others think of them. They worry if they’re not cool enough, smart enough, handsome or pretty enough. They’re afraid of not being liked or getting made fun of. It’s more or less a universal issue.
Even those who say they don’t care, do. Perhaps even more than, say, you or I.
What makes a woman instantly more attractive to men is when she can push aside worrying about what others think of her and be comfortable with herself.
Now, don’t get me wrong.
This doesn’t mean that you have to love every inch of yourself, though you should.
It’s about showing others that you’re confident. Fake it till you make it, if you must. When you know how to project your most passionate and life-loving image, you’ll instantly be more attractive to men. Why? Because, confidence is the sexiest look.
So, to get you started, I’m going to share with you three quick tips that will quickly boost your confidence.
1. Smile more.
The first is to make smiling a habit. Have you ever realized that smiling can instantly make you feel better? It’s true. So, make a point to smile at everyone you pass, be it on the bus, the street, or in the grocery store. Doing so will increase your happiness and make you feel good.
2. Perfect your posture.
Now, this can be a tricky one. But, you know what they say about practice. To help keep your body tall and long, imagine that there’s a string pulling from the top of your head towards the sky and from your chin down towards your toes. If you want to take it a step further, keep your back at a 90-degree angle when you sit and avoid slouching.
There are countless exercises you can find to help improve your posture, but to get you started, hold your shoulders back and have someone tape a giant “X” from one shoulder to the opposite hip. Then put a straight line of tape across your shoulders closing the top of the “X”. Wear the tape during the day to help keep your back straightly aligned.
People who stand tall and confident are more attractive.
3. Wear sexy underwear.
My last tip to boost your confidence is a bit of a funny one, but it’s to wear sexy underwear.
Now, I know this sounds ridiculous but, try it out.
Wearing sexy lingerie will make you feel undeniably attractive, not to mention, confident. It’s like you’ve got this sexy secret to hide that only you know about. It’ll even make you feel like one of James Bond’s girls.
To take things a step further, check yourself out in the mirror after a shower, too. Once you’re comfortable in your own skin, you’ll be unstoppable.
For more killer tips on boosting your confidence, jump on over to my website and watch the free video presentation.
Remember, at the end of the day, everyone has something about them that they don’t like.
Instead of stressing about your imperfections, realize that you’re not alone in feeling this way. Then, up your odds by loving yourself every day.
That’s all for today. If you like what you learned here and want more suggestions for how to be more attractive, then check out my other dating advice, and visit my website.
To learn the stupidly simple technique that makes men obsess over you, head over to my website and watch the free presentation there now.
Until next time, take care, and good luck.