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5 Signs Your Ex Is DYING To Get Back Together With You
Hey, there. This is Clay with Relationship Inner Game. I am the world’s leading breakup expert for high achievers.
Today, we’re going to talk about the five signs that your ex is ready to get back together with you.
Let’s go ahead and jump right into this.
1. You connect on an emotional level.
As you know, the foundation for a strong, healthy relationship is a good emotional connection with your partner. If that doesn’t happen, then there is unlikely going to be a great connection and a great relationship that grows out of that. If you and your ex are having good emotional connections with one another, that is a good sign that you’re about to get back together.
2. You ex has confessed their feelings to you.
You’ve had one of those conversations where they say something like, “Hey, you know there’s something I’ve been meaning to tell you for a while but I think I kind of still have feelings for you.” Maybe they’ve even told you flat out that they love you still, something along those lines.
This is what happens when those positive feelings that we have been talking about in previous articles start to build and they hit sort of this boiling point. The feelings sort of spill out and your ex can’t help but feel that they need to really tell you how it is they’re feeling.
3. You’ve both started flirting again.
It’s not just you flirting with them but it’s also them flirting with you, telling you things like how they think you’re sexy, attractive, or bringing up things you do that they think are hot.
This is another good sign the two of you are about to get back together again and this is because the two of you— or at least your ex anyway— feels comfortable expressing their romantic interest in you, right?
Oftentimes, somebody’s ex might feel a little hesitant about expressing that interest because they don’t want to give you false hope or they’re a little uncertain about where the two of you stand or you whether you’re going to be friends or not.
When they feel comfortable flirting with you and really expressing that attraction towards you, then that can be a good sign that they are comfortable with the idea of seeing you as a romantic partner or potential romantic partner.
4. Your ex takes a genuine interest in your life.
They ask you questions about things that are going on in your life, struggles that you’re having and events that you’ve told them about. Maybe they ask for updates from family members ad ask questions like, “Hey, how is your mom doing?” “How about that thing that your sister said…”, whatever is going on with you, right? They take an active interest in you and your life.
This is a good sign that you and your ex are about to get back together for a few obvious reasons but mainly because they are curious about you and they want to get to know you and what it’s like in your world. And that’s a really good sign that they’re starting to take an interest in you and your life.
5. Your ex starts to see a future with you in it.
Instead of just interacting the moment or sending fun text messages back and forth, they start talking about doing things together with you or building a future with you.
They might say something like, “Hey, you know, this summer it would be nice if we could go to such and such a place.” Or, “Hey, maybe next year, we can do this.” Or even if it’s something as simple as saying “next weekend let’s go see this movie” or “let’s go to my friend’s party.” But they’re starting to talk about a future with you in it.
And this is a sign that the two of you are going to get back together or at least your ex is interested in getting back together because it’s a reflection of how they’re thinking and what’s going on in their mind.
They’re starting to envision a future with you in it. They’re starting to think about how they’re going to spend their own time and it turns out that you know, you are occupying a good slot in that future that they’re wanting to experience. So, that is another sign that the two of you are most likely going have the opportunity to get back together.
If you’d like to learn more about what it takes to get to that point where you and your ex can get back together again, then please stop by the website and get your free report, 5 Unconscious Signs Your Ex Still Wants You.
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